Lobo's song, 'I'd love you to want me' is just another perfect representation of NPD or BPD or whatevs:

I do know that those with NPD love to be wanted. I can even pick up on some gaslighting in these lyrics: "If you'd only let it be."

"Baby, I'd love you to want me 

The way that I want you

The way that it should be

Mmm, baby, you'd love me to want you

The way that I want to

If you'd only let it be"