after donalee's boyfriend said I had the wrong idea about him, she told me he uses the word spic and the n word. I was astounded by this, as well as the way Connie treats brown people, right in front of her. Then Donalee told me the heartbreaking story of her life. the grief in her voice was so deep, it made me cry. she was adopted and raised white, by a white woman who hated Indians and was very vocal about it. the story of her life has unbelievable twists and turns and is truly heartbreaking.